Today I want to talk about the being single and societies thinking about you that why are you single.

Just want to ask if being single is wrong or right? According to me, being single is not a sin. I am also single but I don’t like to be called as flirty if I am talking to other guys with a smile. And if you are working and you are talking over call after your office, your colleagues will say “ohooo, she says she is single but she is over call talking to someone... hmmmm that means she is committed with someone.” I don’t know why people think so.

I think people have more interest in other’s life and neglect their life issues. My parents taught me that “people will say what they think but you make yourself so strong that no one’s comment will affect you or your life.” What society thinks is they are the king of all and others are kept here just for our entertainment and their topic for gossips.

India is becoming digital and no doubt in that they are becoming modern enough but our Indian society, they can’t change. In metro cities people do not show such interest in anyone’s life but in other cities, villages and other places, people say what they think and that too at your back. In front of you they are too sweet as it can cause diabetes also. Hahaha Just Kidding!

But on a serious note, I am totally fed up with these kinds of people. Today I came across with two ladies. I was just talking over call with my friend (that too female friend), and what they were gossiping was “oh! Today’s children, they are so much busy with their phone. Even they cannot talk at homes; I don’t understand what they talk hours and hours.” I just started staring at them and they just went. It was just like they were there just to gossip about me. Uffff ladies that too I call them typical ladies of India who have more interest in talking to other’s life topics more than their own life.

So, finally you all must be thinking I am in a bad mood. Nah! Nothing like that I just got strike by this thought that, if people will mind their own business will it cost something much more than they can afford. We need to do is ignore ignore. And I will personally suggest you guys please ignore if someone is talking at your back. Because people generally talk behind your back due to two reasons:

They want to become like you and failed; you are more important in other’s life like superstars of Bollywood.

So, live like a SUPERSTAR and forget all WORRIES…..

Hey there!!! Guys you must be thinking where I have been these days. I will not give an excuse I will say I was busy somewhere else. I have not forget to post blogs for you guys.

Today I am gonna write about how you can cope up depression. I know that's a cheesy one but I am going to write with my experience. I have never get depressed but I have got to that stage. After my breakup I was depressed much. I don't wanted to talk much with anyone, I always felt lonely and alone, always sad and upset. My family supported me they were with me but the thing was, I was not looking at anything that time as I got strike by that relationship breakup.

After two months staying at home I re-joined my college and this time with a new girl. Due to that phase in my life, I have lost much weight also(as I was not eating much). I put up liner, a bit of makeup and a lip gloss on my face and after all this I used to attend college. Everyone was saying woww you have changed much but inside I was trying to stick together the broken pieces of my heart.

I diverted my mind. I had conversation with different people and after that I got to know that I also have a line of lovers. My friends supported my, my family, they call me anytime even in the mid of the night and  ask how are you what are you doing darling!

Whenever you feel you are alone and you are too much sad to do anything or to talk to anyone, whenever you feel afraid of loosing the one whom you love a lot, JUST STOP THINKING and got to work on yourself. According to me, change yourself and become the one who people are afraid to loose.

The thing that I ended up is don't think too much about anything. Things are not permanent and people also change with time. I love which stays permanent is your family's love and your friend's love.

Be happy; Stay calm.