RAPE: Special kind of EVIL

RAPE...... what is it?? I guess it’s just a topic now-a-days. I don’t think it is a serious crime.

 If someone is made to have sex when you don’t want to, then make your mood. Give your consent; either he is a stranger or a person you know. Either you are wearing shorts or wrapped in a saree with a ‘GHUNGHAT’. Either you are giving any sign like ‘come, I am ready for a rape’ or you are just minding your own business. If you are subjected to rape then get raped. It is not a tall order, get raped, it will become common in some time. What is the problem??

Sounds weird????

So, what should I say? Annihilate yourself from rapes. Can you? Or should I say abstain yourself in your homes. What is the guarantee that you will not get raped there?  Or what about a comment on your dressing because that can also inchoate a feeling in a men to have one round with you. What to say if an 8 year old girl can get rapped then WHO ARE YOU?

So, for now, we have protected girls in wombs. But what about the world outside the womb? Is it not meant for girls to be safe or girls are only given birth to be raped. Let me give you some examples from last year rape cases: (source: INDIA TIMES)

1.      Bihar, 16 June; A 14 year old was raped by six minors and then thrown from a train..

2.      Gurugram; A 19 yr old mother with her 8-months baby was raped by the auto driver in a shared auto and 2 other men on board the auto. And threw her baby out on the road.

3.      Sonipat, 9 May; A 23 yr old girl was gang raped and her skull was smashed with brick.

4.      Kolkata; A young girl of 8 was sexually assaulted by her uncle many times before she fled that home.

5.      Jewar-bulandshahr road; the family was travelling from Jewar to Bulandshehr hospital. 2 tyres were punctured and when the driver got down to help, 6 men attacked and four women were gang raped.

6.      Khagaria (Bihar), 19 June; A college girl was raped by her boyfriend and then set on fire.

7.      Telangana; a 60-yr old husband rapes a woman while his wife films the horrendous act.

8.      Amreha budawan (U.P.); A 7 yr old girl, who was sleeping next to her mother, was picked from home and raped.

9.      Gurugram; A woman, 26 years by age, from Sikkim was raped for 5 hours by 3 men in a moving car on the Delhi-Gurugram border.

1.   Mangaluru; A minor girl (a college girl) was raped by her own father for several months.

1.   Puri (Orissa), April; A physically challenged minor girl was raped inside the lord Jagannath Temple.

1.   Unnao, 4 June; A 17 year old was raped by a MLA, his brother and others and her father died, as he was thrashed allegedly by the MLA’s brother.

And now the most recent, KATHUA RAPE CASE. An 8 year old infant was brutally gang raped in a Temple for 8 days. Interesting isn’t it? Is this our humanity? Or I guess it’s a new way of worshipping in India.

Where are the people who were doing deceptive riots against the so called movie because it was creating menace for their mythological history and it was endangering their historical prestige. The interesting part is, those ladies with swords in their hands on the roads with a vicious attitude, where are they?

So, what more we can do is a Candle March. Good idea I guess!! But how many times? Don’t you think in this movie called ‘LIFE’ we need to do some meaningful action scenes too? Isn’t it a high time to take strict actions against this? AHAANN No not at all. 

Some are busy in protecting the divinity of their historical goddesses while some are solving a hoary case. And rest are sitting in their homes and judging the outside world. Are you all playing to the gallery only? Who is responsible to take actions? Only the Government?

Now, my eyes are filled with tears and I am feeling disenchanted, shattered and fully fed-up. It is effable. I will not request you all to take any steps because what you all can do is to create futile and histrionic scenes only. I don’t want to detriment someone’s feelings but this is true.

Are you all are waiting for MIRACLE to happen? When you will be awakening with a vengeful feel in you? U know when? When your daughter, your mother, your sister or your female friend will get sexually assaulted in front of your eyes with an iron rod and when you see them lying in an appalling state and dying then you will feel the fierce feeling. And why I am feeling it? Because I am girl and when my brother says,” come before its dark.” I know why he is saying so.

All I can say is THIS IS THE NASCENT AND DEVELOPING INDIA. #DISSAPPOINTED

First Impression is the Last Impression

Hi all intellects out there.

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So, let’s start with today’s topic i.e., ‘FIRST IMPRESSION IS THE LAST IMPRESSION’. But before starting, let me clear one thing that don’t adjudicate that this blog is only for the people with beautiful faces but also for the people with beautiful souls.

You will agree or not but this is a very true fact that first representation of yourself is the sparkle that lasts long in a person’s mind, in case of any interview or date.. Ahaann.. that’s true. Then what are the things that you need to take care for your first impression, you will find it in today’s blog.

Imagine you are going for an interview. But your situation is very lousy to see. So will the interviewer be interested in having a sacred conversation with you? Or if you have the very first day you office and you are behaving as a lose head and futile person. Will your colleagues will approach you or you will become ‘a hot potato’ in your office? Or let’s take a lay man example, like you are going on a date and the boy or girl you are going to meet is your online friend. So, you will sow the seeds of a pristine personality or a lunatic personality?

The answer for all the questions is same. For a stirring impression you have to give a reflection of your chivalrous and impeccable personality. So, what are key points to keep into mind for your likeable first impression.

1.       Appearance: Whenever you enter a room what everyone discover is your personality as in what you look. (NOTE: Not mandatory that you should have a good face) First thing, your clothing should be as per the occasion. It is not necessary to buy a brand-new and over priced clothes. You can mix and match the old ones or you can buy clothes with nominal prices having an essence of expensive clothes. You should wear decent accessories that includes earrings, neck-piece etc. And last smarten up with well settled hairs and a least of makeup.

2.      Hygiene: How much hygienic you are, is a representation of your standardised charisma. Before going for your first meeting with anyone have a bath, clean nails, tidy clothes and shoes, and well trimmed and uncluttered hairs.

3.      Wear a smile: Always try to wear a genuine smile that spreads a positive vibes in the surrounding environment and thus makes a great meeting to get started.

4.      Mushy Greetings: A generous handshake or a warm hug, expresses a lot about your personality. The way you meet and greet a person is one more thing the other person notices in your traits. Always remember to accost (greet) the person whenever you meet them.

5.      Way of talking: The way you talk and vocalise your words is a matter if the other person is getting connected with you. You must know first what your and other person’s mutual interest is. Whenever there is an interesting topic going on in-between two persons then the enthusiasm for having a conversation increases. Worthless topics can only make time to be transitory.

6.      Be a good listener: A good listener is very nearly as attractive as a good speaker. You can not have a beautiful mind if you do not know how to listen. Summon up, your ears will not get you in trouble. No one likes a loquacious person.

7.      Be yourself: A majorly important point and that be yourself. Don’t become much histrionic or specious. Just represent the real you but in a positive way.

These are some points that you need to remember that will bolster your confidence and steer you towards a great meeting. This will give you a prerogative powers to attract a slew rate of people and avert you from falling down.

Almost everyone can make a good first impression but only a few can make a good lasting impression. So, keeping all these points in mind, have a great day ahead and give a lavish impression on others.

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