Tuesday, April 3, 2018

First Impression is the Last Impression


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So, let’s start with today’s topic i.e., ‘FIRST IMPRESSION IS THE LAST IMPRESSION’. But before starting, let me clear one thing that don’t adjudicate that this blog is only for the people with beautiful faces but also for the people with beautiful souls.

You will agree or not but this is a very true fact that first representation of yourself is the sparkle that lasts long in a person’s mind, in case of any interview or date.. Ahaann.. that’s true. Then what are the things that you need to take care for your first impression, you will find it in today’s blog.

Imagine you are going for an interview. But your situation is very lousy to see. So will the interviewer be interested in having a sacred conversation with you? Or if you have the very first day you office and you are behaving as a lose head and futile person. Will your colleagues will approach you or you will become ‘a hot potato’ in your office? Or let’s take a lay man example, like you are going on a date and the boy or girl you are going to meet is your online friend. So, you will sow the seeds of a pristine personality or a lunatic personality?

The answer for all the questions is same. For a stirring impression you have to give a reflection of your chivalrous and impeccable personality. So, what are key points to keep into mind for your likeable first impression.

1.       Appearance: Whenever you enter a room what everyone discover is your personality as in what you look. (NOTE: Not mandatory that you should have a good face) First thing, your clothing should be as per the occasion. It is not necessary to buy a brand-new and over priced clothes. You can mix and match the old ones or you can buy clothes with nominal prices having an essence of expensive clothes. You should wear decent accessories that includes earrings, neck-piece etc. And last smarten up with well settled hairs and a least of makeup.
2.      Hygiene: How much hygienic you are, is a representation of your standardised charisma. Before going for your first meeting with anyone have a bath, clean nails, tidy clothes and shoes, and well trimmed and uncluttered hairs.
3.      Wear a smile: Always try to wear a genuine smile that spreads a positive vibes in the surrounding environment and thus makes a great meeting to get started.
4.      Mushy Greetings: A generous handshake or a warm hug, expresses a lot about your personality. The way you meet and greet a person is one more thing the other person notices in your traits. Always remember to accost (greet) the person whenever you meet them.
5.      Way of talking: The way you talk and vocalise your words is a matter if the other person is getting connected with you. You must know first what your and other person’s mutual interest is. Whenever there is an interesting topic going on in-between two persons then the enthusiasm for having a conversation increases. Worthless topics can only make time to be transitory.
6.      Be a good listener: A good listener is very nearly as attractive as a good speaker. You can not have a beautiful mind if you do not know how to listen. Summon up, your ears will not get you in trouble. No one likes a loquacious person.
7.      Be yourself: A majorly important point and that be yourself. Don’t become much histrionic or specious. Just represent the real you but in a positive way.

These are some points that you need to remember that will bolster your confidence and steer you towards a great meeting. This will give you a prerogative powers to attract a slew rate of people and avert you from falling down.

Almost everyone can make a good first impression but only a few can make a good lasting impression. So, keeping all these points in mind, have a great day ahead and give a lavish impression on others.

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